HAVE YOU WRITTEN DOWN YOUR QUESTION TO YOURSELF?

If not, please, please, please go back and do so. We cannot emphasise just how important this is! Please trust us and do it now.

So if you have arrived here, well done! Hopefully you've now got a question written down on a piece of paper relating to the level of your current level of happiness.

Most people will write something like:

“Why am I unhappy?”

or

“Why do I feel so lousy?”

or

“Why does nothing go my way?”

or

“Why can't I be rich?”

or

“Why am I depressed?”

If you've written something along those lines then Congratulations! – you are amongst the overwhelming majority of people on this planet of ours who think in exactly the same way. This is absolutely great news because it means that what you are about to read IS going to change your life beyond anything you could have ever dreamt of!

Just change the questions you ask yourself.

That is the secret. Surely there must be more to it than that? We'll explain more in a second.. Read on.

Everything we do, every day, every minute of every day, we constantly ask ourselves questions like the ones above. The trouble is, with most people, that the questions we ask ourselves lead us to make an assumption about the answer because of how they are worded. And the assumption we make in the question ensure that the only possible outcome of the answer is a negative one. Look again at what we are really asking ourselves?

“Why am I unhappy?”

Our subconscious mind will automatically answer on the terms that the question was asked with answers like:

“Because terrible things happen to me all the time”

or

“Because nothing seems to work for me”

or

“Because I can't seem to snap out of this bad mood”

... etc.. etc..

We have basically asked ourselves to come up with some reasons that can make us unhappy. That's not a solution to a problem. It is a reaffirmation of the problem which, if anything, will help make the problem worse instead of solving it!

You see what we mean? If you ask a question with a negative slant on it, it is only natural for the answer to that question to come back with a negative slant also.

It presupposes that negative things are happening and doesn't actually provide a solution to whatever the problem is. Instead it gives you reasons that only reinforce your negative question.

Now, what happens if we actually pause to think about what we are actually asking ourselves and learn to ask the question in a slightly different way? Rather than ask “Why do I always ask myself negative questions?” Wouldn't it be better to put a positive slant on the question? Just like that!

Instead of giving a question that will automatically lead to a negative assumption let's try making the question itself more positive and see what happens...

So “Why am I unhappy?”
could become
“What can I do to become happier?”

Immediately, when you ask a question like that, your subconscious goes searching for a solution for that specific problem. It's what your brain does better and faster than any supercomputer. In the first few seconds of asking yourself a question, your subconscious will process literally millions of different scenarios and will offer you the most promising solutions. The key is that it will give you an answer that relates to the question posed. Ask it a negative question and you'll get a negatively biased answer. Ask it a positively framed question and you will get a positive answer. A positive answer that will actually help you achieve whatever it is you want.

Let's try it with some of the other questions...

“Why do I feel so lousy?”
becomes
“How can I feel better?”

or

“Why does nothing go my way?”
becomes
“What are other people who get their way doing that I can do too?”

or

“Why can't I be rich?”
becomes
“How can I have more money?”

or

“Why am I depressed?”
becomes
“What can I do to give myself a boost and feel great about myself?”

Give it a try now. Try writing your original question again in a more positive light. And the brilliant thing is there is never just one way of writing each question. You can constantly come up with new ways of asking questions that will come up with even more positive answers.

Give your brain a chance! Give it the right questions and it WILL give you the right answers.

There is no real difference between you and the happiest, wealthiest, most successful people on the planet. They do react differently to whatever it is that presents itself to themselves though. They have only learned to ask themselves different questions and allow themselves the opportunity to act on the answers they are given.

A good way of looking at it is to put yourself in these people's heads. Imagine if, for example, you stepped into, say, the billionaire entrepreneur Richard Branson's head with your current situation. How would he react? What questions would someone like that start asking themselves? You can guarantee it would be the opposite of what unhappy, unsuccessful, negative thinking people ask. That's the real reason why these people have got where they are in life!

Now you should have an understanding of how this technique works (and it does work) you can apply it to everything you do from this moment onwards. If you do this, and keep doing this, it will soon become habit. And once it becomes habit you will be completely amazed by the results you will soon start to see.

However easy this sounds, it will only actually work if you start doing it for yourself.

Other useful, but incredibly easy things that you can do everyday which will gradually transform yourself into a happier more contented and relaxed person are:

Spend a little time each day appreciating what is actually good in your life. Make this a habit you keep for good.

Have a laugh. Read a funny book. Watch a funny film or listen to a comedy programme on the radio. Meet up with a friend and just have fun. Laughing has been scientifically proven to increase the blood flow around the body. It turns out that the old saying “Laughter is the best medicine” actually turns out to be pretty accurate!

Do something for someone else every day. Even if it is to a complete stranger, just do something nice. It doesn't even have to cost anything. It might be as simple as holding a door open for someone or even just smiling at them in the street. You will soon be doing this regularly when you experience the positive reaction you get.

As well as doing something for other people, it is very important to let yourself know how much you think of yourself – so do something nice for yourself every single day! Go somewhere nice or get yourself a present. Anything you like. Treat yourself – you surely deserve it!We haven't just made this stuff up. It has been shown in numerous studies to be effective. What have you got to lose? Surely it is worthwhile giving the suggestions described here a really good try. You absolutely, without question, owe it to yourself to succeed with this. So get ready to get yourself into action straight away. Start making your plan of exactly what it is you are going to do when you've finished reading this.Make the change right now. Re-read this chapter from start to end and then read it again. It is, without doubt, the most important single piece of information in this guide. It may well be the single-most important piece of information you ever read in your life - The possibilities that you can achieve by applying it to yourself and those around you are well and truly astounding.

Aston's Top Tip... The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.

Drop us a line to let us know how you get on and what you achieve, we'll be happy to hear from you!

FINAL WORDS

Let's apply what we are starting to learn to even the chapter heading above. The heading presupposes that these are the “Final Words” and that's it, end of story, it all stops here.

Let's scrub that heading and replace it with (in big bold letters, maybe with a fanfare playing in the background):

“YOUR NEW START!”

That's better!

It is all in your hands now - just like when Willy Wonka gave Charlie the keys to the Chocolate Factory!! Well, that is pretty much everything covered in the guide itself.It's up to you. You have everything you require right now. It just depends on you taking the next step. Take that step today.

Benji Says... "The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise man grows it under his feet"

Summary

• Figure out exactly what you want and why you want it. You will only succeed if you have a realistic goal that you can move towards.
• Pay off any debt and concentrate on actually earning money for yourself instead of owing it to someone else. Avoid money traps.
• Keep motivated. Remind yourself of your possible future.
• Be healthy – exercise regularly, eat well, sleep well.
• Learn to relax instead of getting stressed!
• Plan your path to your future. Do this meticulously. The more detail you can plan and visualise your future, the more likely it is that it will happen that way. As mentioned earlier, we move towards our goals.
• Just do it and never give up!
• Be happy and do what you know is right to become happier.

Successful, happy, healthy, wealthy people do all of the things on this list. Make sure you do the same. Re-read this guide if you need to remind yourself of how to achieve any of the points. So, well done for getting there! You've reached the starting line! We wish you all the very best of luck for the most fabulous future. We sincerely hope that you have found the information written here beneficial and that it will help you in the future to become wealthier and happier beyond your wildest dreams!

Good luck and above everything else, HAVE FUN! Benji Ferrero & Aston McTalisker

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